On Windows, the pre-update concurrent-instance gate aborted with exit 2
whenever ANY other process held the venv hermes.exe shim — including the
gateway itself, which _pause_windows_gateways_for_update() stops moments
later and the post-update restart phase brings back. Users with a running
gateway were forced into a manual taskkill dance before every update.
The gate now filters gateway runtimes out of the abort list and proceeds
when nothing else is concurrent. Classification delegates to
_is_pausable_gateway -> gateway.status.looks_like_gateway_command_line
(the canonical shlex-tokenized, profile-selector-aware matcher shared by
the Desktop preflight exemption and the venv-holder guard fallback), so
the gate's exemption and the pause machinery cannot drift apart. Anything
not positively identified as a gateway — REPLs, dashboard, Desktop
backend children, gateway MANAGEMENT commands like 'gateway status',
unreadable cmdlines — still aborts exactly as before, and the abort
message now lists only the PIDs that are actually the user's problem.
Surgical reapply of PR #37039 by @damadorPL onto current main (the gate
moved from hermes_cli/main.py to hermes_cli/update_cmd.py in the main.py
decomposition); his substring classifier was replaced with the canonical
matcher, which also fixes the 'hermes gateway status' misclassification
flagged in review.
Co-authored-by: Hermes <hermes@nousresearch.com>
Krzysztof Radzikowski